Boyfriend problems after my grandmother died.?

i understand where you are coming from. It is very difficult to lose someone close to you and then having to be alone to pick up the pieces without them in your life especially if you were close to them. However taking your frustrations out on your boyfriend isn't the way to go about it. I understand you are hurting and you just want him to be there and granted he shouldn't act like that especially after what happened. Give it a couple days for him and you to cool off and then call him and explain how you are feeling without getting hostile about it. It is harder for someone who has never lost anyone to really understand what you are going through but he will be more willing to console you if you aren't yelling at him for not being there. Hope this helps