I asked a question in the political section & I would like to have a psychological perspective on this, I saw?

I saw another question about Cindy Sheehan & was shocked at how cruel people were about her. She evidently still goes to Bush's home town asking what her son died for? He said it was WMD & now has admitted this was not true...ok, now my question is that after looking at the answers I got from my question about her, one person after another said they do not have respect for her. She did not sacrifice anything her son did.......How can they say she did not sacrifice anything....I have a unique perspsective...I would like a phychological perspective.....I find it shocking that a mother who has lost her son is not treated with the highest level of respect..so is there a right or wrong here....I think she gave up her son so deserves respect from people who claim they care about the military.....the party (republicans) say NO, they don't respect her & she deserves no respect she is disresepcting her son...I am looking for some clarity about this. I see them as cold & ignorant...they see me as a liberal who should just not question Bush.