2nd marriages - with kids from prior - How much time did you spend together with your spouse before marriage?

are u ready for a mans viewpoint? where is all this math coming from..holy cow..sounds like u have every event, chore,exciting adventures to be, all mapped out on your calender. YIKES..talk to him girl..let him know u do not approve of him leaving u alone to read exotic romance novels for your satisfaction..allow him to decide if a weekend of fun for him is equal to a weekend of missed oportunities and fun with u..if we, men, think of u as "our possession"..we think we "deserve" time for ourselves..and forget your feelings..we think of our other half as our..possession.. we forget we can lose our "possession' and we believe that until the bitter end..and thus..once again our possession is taken away..so goes life..heavy sigh..when will we learn..ha ha..talk to him ma'am..b4 he goes on the trip